I lost my sewing mojo (or “sewjo”) HARD right at the end of summer break. It’s hard for me to maintain routines when seasons transition, especially coming back from summer. I work as a school psychologist in public schools, so I get summer off, which I recognize garners no sympathy from anyone. But it’s tough to navigate such a large shift in how you’re spending time. Yes, I know what this sounds like. “Boo hoo, it’s hard to go back to the real world and make time for your hobby after 6 straight weeks of vacation.” And yet, that’s generally what happened.
This isn’t for lack of projects or inspiration, almost the opposite. My sewing queue is never longer than it is right at the end of summer. I spend about a solid month letting the creativity flow freely, with almost no constraints, and let me tell you – creativity breeds more creativity.
And all of a sudden, my long uninterrupted afternoons disappeared, and then the choice becomes spending time with the people I love, or sewing. Or going to the gym, or sewing (#realtalk, during this period, I chose neither of those things). Or recovering from the adjustment back to work, or sewing. And then sewing becomes not a restorative practice, but a draining and burdensome one.
I think I’m mostly back, and I have a few things that helped me along the way, and maybe will help anyone else in a bit of a sewing funk.
1. Let the funk happen and listen to it
Okay, I just told you that I was going to help you get OUT of your sewing funk, but go with me here. If you’ve lost a bit of your sewjo, your body is trying to tell you something. Listen to it! For me, it was trying to tell me that I actually needed a little bit of time to adjust to my shifted work schedule, and after the first few draining weeks/months back, I actually wanted more human care and connection than creativity. Forcing sewing during that time would have depleted me MORE and ultimately taken me longer to get back to my machines.
2. Clear the queue
Or at least put current list away for the moment. If anything on that list was going to light your hair on fire and get you back to your sewing machine, it would have already. That’s not to say you don’t totally want to make the things on your list or that you won’t eventually. But giving yourself a blank slate and asking yourself “what excites me right now?” can be a great way back into the groove.
3. Force yourself to finish some WIPs or tackle that mending pile
Yes I know this is the opposite of both of the first two points. Sewing funks are complicated and need lots of different tactics okay? Don’t we all have those projects that are all cut out and ready to go, or practically done but you never finished the hem? Completing some of those lingering projects can clear out some mental space and make you feel accomplished and rejuvenated. Sometimes, the longer we go without sewing, the harder/bigger everything feels and just doing a few small tasks can go a long way toward finding your enthusiasm again.
4. Clean and/or reorganize your sewing space
For like a month of my sewing hiatus, my studio was a certifiable disaster zone. I have a studio space separate from where I live, so it can be tough to clean up a bit here and there as I have to drive 5-10 minutes to get there. When I’m in my studio, I just want to be sewing. But then things get messy and pile up, and then I don’t want to be in the space at all.
My studio space isn’t well-laid out either, as it started it’s life as my apartment, before I moved in with my boyfriend. For financial reasons, it makes more sense for us to have two spaces, a living space and separate creative space, rather than try and find a larger apartment (because Bay Area rent is brutal, and we both have pretty reasonable and stable apartments). But all that means that the space was never originally laid out with sewing in mind. Storage is a pain, and since nothing has a place, it just feels like it’s everywhere. Because it is. My boyfriend noticed I wasn’t going over there to sew much, and suggested revamping the space (getting rid of the bed etc. because again, I don’t actually LIVE there). And that immediately sparked a huge excitement and reinterest in sewing.
I’m still in the planning stages of the studio redo, so I don’t have anything to show yet, but I’m really excited about the whole process. And it made me so motivated to finish up some projects and clear out some things to really see what I need for the space. I’ll do a whole studio tour when I’m done. (And if you have any good #sewingspace inspiration, send it my way!)
So if you’re in that “meh” stage with your sewing, try cleaning up your space, or taking a few minutes to figure out if there are some things that are causing unnecessary struggles in your sewing space, and see what you can maybe do to fix them. Everything feels a little less difficult with a clean countertop.
5. Try out another creative hobby
Have you always wanted to learn to knit? Or watercolor? Or wheel throw ceramics? Perhaps you want to make a perfect macaroon? Maybe your creativity is telling you it needs something completely different to get it moving again.
During my sewing hiatus, I took some knitting classes, picked up embroidery again and decided to try my hand at watercolor (I’m terrible, but that’s part of the fun). All of those things moved me a little bit closer to getting back in the studio.
6. Take a class
Several months ago, I signed up for a jeans making workshop with Lauren Taylor. I knew I could figure out how to sew jeans on my own, but I also thought I might not get around to it without the push of a class. Turns out, that was true, and this was also what I needed to start the slow reigniting of my sewjo. Bonus: I have a pair of jeans that fits just as well as my rtw jeans I love. More on that in an upcoming post.
7. Go for an easy win
Some of my first projects back from my sewing hiatus were simple knit shirts. I needed things I knew could be successful and get a lot of wear. I knew a sewing fail could scare away my newly returned, very skittish, sew-jo.
Look, I’m not going to lie, sometimes jump starting your sewing mojo is hard, and takes a long time. It’s sort of like pushing a car from a dead stop. It takes a hell of a lot of effort, and it seems like nothing is moving at all. But then you feel a just little give, maybe a half inch, and then a little more. And before you know it you’re moving and it’s not so hard anymore. The trick is to do enough little things until you get that first tiny feeling of movement. And then keep pressing forward.
What helps get your sewjo back? Have you used any of these before?
10 Replies to “7 Tips to Get Your Sewjo Back”
Cleaning the sewing room and reorganizing my stash works for me. My “queue” tends to become humongous piles of fabric scattered all over the floor to the point where I no longer know what’s what and I overbuy ‘cuz I forget what I have. Tidying up reminds me of forgotten projects, gives me new ideas, and gets me on the right path again. Plus, it’s so much more enjoyable to sew in a clean, tidy space than a chaotic one.
I also try to finish my UFO”s….but sometimes that gets me so aggravated because in most cases, I only needed about 10 minutes more of work on the darn thing to finish it. So why’d I let it go in the WIP pile in the first place? 🙁
Piles of fabric sounds both wonderful and overwhelming! I always feel like I “don’t have time” to clean my sewing space, but it always feels so much better when I do.
And omg I FEEL YOU on that last point. My word for 2019 is “now” for a number of different reasons, but partially because I feel like I put off things because I think they’ll be big tasks, when in reality, they take like 5 minutes. Sewing is not an exception to this problem 🙈
Thank you for this blog. Often when the killing of sewjo hits, we don’t want to take the time to figure out the cause. I think I have actually run from finding out the cause sometimes. I do know that this is the first Christmas in years that I feel like the season was balanced with sew time, craft time, me time and others time, oh…and work time…and I am 66years old.
Completing unfinished projects and keeping the sewing room clear/clean is a high priority for the next two weeks. After that, I am attending a two day draping class. All of this is mentioned in your bullet points and I look forward to the end result of being energized and revitalized to sew sew sew!
Oh I hope those all work for you! In the end I find that sometimes it takes a little bit to get the sewjo going, but the more gentle I can be with it, the faster it comes back!
I applaud your voicing of rule number 1! It seems of late tend to people feel the need to apologize if they don’t want to 110% committed to a specific thing–and then blog/instagram/facebook their daily activities. Do what makes you happy. No apologies necessary.
My favorite however is number 2 – clearing the queue. I tend to lose my sewjo when I have stacks. So i create an Evernote list and put that pile in a bin (I am blessed with lots of storage). I wait a year and if the pile is still there I ask myself will finishing this make me happy? If the answer is no, someone at our local thrift store gets a great deal on pattern, fabric etc in a ziploc. People – if you need to hear it – here it is – you don’t need to finish everything you start.
Loved your post! You gained a new fan.
Thanks!! And yeah, the whole no apologizing for not being interested in your hobby is big for me. I will sometimes go long stretches of totally ignoring my blog or Instagram because I’m not feeling it. Probably not great for building my blog, but honestly, I don’t totally care. I have a job I love, and I don’t need my hobbies to become jobs too!
And I LOVE your ruthless purging of unfinished objects! I do that a bit too, but not as well.
I came here from Diary Of A Sewing Fanatic and I’m so glad I did! This is such a great and helpful post- not only the ideas but it helps me so much to see that I’m not the only one with a challenge. Thank you very much.
Oh goodness, you are DEFINITELY not alone!! I think it’s helpful to acknowledge that creativity and the desire to create ebbs and flows. My sewjo is generally back, and yet today when I had a full uninterrupted afternoon, I just didn’t feel that inspired or excited to finish a couple projects I’m working on. So I didn’t. Glad we can make each other all feel less alone. I’m always down to talk about the non-instagram-worthy side of my sewing 🙂